Need help applying DR (super long newcomer story)

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Oh an Tallulas view on her husband is in line with my opinion. She sats he is the manliest man you will ever meet. Andd now that he is helping with the kids he is adding icing to the cake! And hee turns her on BIG time! She wants to jump his bones regardless of what pain he may have caused her...because he is attractive chocolate cake with icing on top!

Now if he wasnt manly, he could probably bathe the kids every day until the skin on his hands fell off. Would she want to jump his bones? Maybe. But if she didnt, then it would.clearly mean he lacks in something else, something.much more basic on the attraction list.

So in my.opinion, if you have been helpful to your wife all along (as I have been) and she is still not.so.interested in you the you probably need to take a.closer.look at what makes a man fundamentally more attractive because you probably fell short at some point in your marriage (as I did).

I failed in the providing for my family. It is not.a.money thing, but more of an attitude towards the problem that matters. If you work to solve the problem with courage and strength you.become attractive even if you never achieve gour goal of being rich.

If you cowardly run from the problems, and constant blame your issue on things beyond.your.control, and whine, and show fear and lack of ability to.deal with lifes stresses, you become less attractive. Doing dishes will not offset this.