Hoping for WAS to come home

[JaxFL14]

Well Mr.Bond, You may have just hit on a problem I have turned a blind eye to for a very long time in my marriage. My W never really showed me any. I didn't get the affection I wanted, hated that she never initiated sex, she never seemed concerned about us spending time together and never gave me gifts. Though I did all that to her. It's sad really, that it took this long for me to put it all together. That's why I can't think of what her love language is. She always liked getting gifts but that makes me think thst I just had to try to buy her love and I shouldn't have had to. I know things that I did wrong but this ultimately is she deal. She just left because she feels she knows who she is and is not a person that wants to be married. Wants to live alone, doesn't want to be held accountable to anyone. She's that she has changed in the last 7 years and she won't be unhappy so everyone else is happy. Is all this just BS? I don't know? I know there is something wrong saying this when you have 3 kids ages 5,4 and 9 months. And there were no obvious problems in the marriage. I don't know. The mind never stops analyzing.