Okay, finally got some sleep last night...

Which is a good thing, since H hardly slept again, and I was up with the kids at 6:15 am.

Snodderly, I was a member of that forum before here. I found it very negative though, and they definitely didn't have a DB mentality. Also, seemed to be little traffic, took forever to get a response. I remember Phoenix - she did have a lot of wise things to say. Now that I think about it, she reminds me of you smile

And it would be a shame if say, oh I don't know, the window was down and his cell phone just happened to go flying out into traffic while we're speeding along on the highway. Just saying wink

Linda, he did have more golfing planned, but I think it was legit. I feel like when he uses the debit card to pay for things, he's telling the truth. When he pays with cash, that's a red flag that he's hiding something.

And you are right, they are going to do what they want to do regardless of us, yet they seem to want our approval.

Umm, sorry H, but I'm NEVER going to approve of your affair!!!

Hi Complicated, thanks for stopping by! I know you have been at this for quite awhile too.

The lying is hard, isn't it? I tend to not believe a word that comes out of my H's mouth. It's sad.

I can't even begin to think about OW withdrawal - wait, what's that sound - it's UW reminding me to NOT GET AHEAD OF MYSELF! Still, I can only imagine how difficult that would be. To me, our H's should be worried about losing US, not some worthless ho bag.

Speaking of...

Hi UW, I think I've gotten over my grumpy hump - at least for today.

Even though I try, and I really do, to not be resentful towards H, it does rear it's ugly head from time to time.

I just get tired of all his bullsh!t - and of always having the one to hold everything together.

Off to grocery store now - at least that's kid free today - will post more later wink


Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."