T, I'd like you to think about this response when I asked why you wanted to stay married to your W. Not just stay married (we all get that) but stay married tothe woman you married.

Originally Posted By: T
I don't want my marriage to fail. I want my kids to not have come from a broken home.
We have been happy before and know we could be happy again.
Unfortunately that would take a lot of work on her side.


If there is no respect, no empathy; there is resentment and lots of blaming.

So what do you really feel for your W?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss