I had to chuckle when you mentioned the addiction to the boob! Oh so true. Though if you ask me, I think our MLCers are acting like a couple of boobs!!!(should we develop an MLC binky to help break them of this addiction? I shudder to think what the female version would look like LOL!!!!)
I think anytime your H chooses to open up to you, it is a good thing. I imagine them trying to put their thoughts and feelings into words can be a pretty daunting task with all the confusion in their minds.
I recall a fight H and I had about 1 1/2 months post- bomb when I found an 8x10 picture of he and OW in his golf bag. (Yet of course I was the bad guy because I was snooping!) Anyway, he told me a lot of things about how he was feeling. One of the things he said is that he wants to be around people who make him feel good about himself.
They don't want the true friends who might question them or hold that mirror up to show them how they're really acting. Only those that are willing to take the trip to la la land with them will do!
You're doing great Raine, keep that awesome sense of humor along the way
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
