AJ, I'm glad I made the decision that I did because, honestly, I still don't want contact with xh. I don't trust him or his ability to be respectful of me. Setting the communication boundaries with him face to face is a 180 for me. I never stood up to him in our M. So I do think he needs to initiate the next contact and from that I will determine whether he really heard me or not. If not, I will have to restate the boundaries.
