Thanks FY---my h too has reverted to being mean and angry again. There was a time (like in Complicated) situation where he seemed to be working through things and we were getting along, at least civilly.

I am going to use the advice you gave to Comp as well.

BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life