I'll still have my happy memories, ss you say, but there's a chance that he'll always remember me as the lying cheating bitch who stole the best years of his youth from him. frown
No Linda he won't. I am not going into competition here for mean MLCers - too much competition!! but even though my poor crazy husband is still lost in MLC he really really doesn't think or say those things about me any more. It is like a toddler saying 'I hate you' when you thwart what they think they want at the time. Or when a teen says mean things about you!
If you take to heart the things they say you will be sad and hurt. In their own way they love us still - but we also represent a lot of their negative feelings about themselves and their lives. That is not our fault - we happen to standing in the way of a truck that is out of control.
Have a great time in the UK - it is a lovely part you are going to. And as for driving on the left - a lot of countries in the world do so including India with 650 million people, and Japan. Not to mention Indonesia and Australia. So good practice for when you go further afield!
