Thanks for stopping by FY. Yes this is very hurtful stuff. Totally unlike the old H too.
Another crazy day with H. I am off on Fridays and I did some stuff around the house, afterall I'm doing everything myself now that 2 of us used to do, and then I sat out in the pool about an hour and a half.
I think he gets info from D21 because they are pretty close and he texts "must be nice to be sitting in the pool" and " you win D21 and I will play golf another day". I told him I offered to change plans to celebrate my bday didn't she tell you? He kept texting.
Finally I said "if all you are going to do is cut me down please leave me alone. Then I said if you can't say something nice then don't say it at all. My mom used to use that line on us kids when we were younger. lol. Thought it was appropriate since he's acting like a kid.
He made another comment a little while later and I never replied.
He has never been able to forgive or forget. This is part of the reason we are in this predicament.
How much long is this anger going to go on?
What I don't understand is we were getting along pretty good and he was coming around the house more often. I actually thought he was going to try and work things out. Then we had the Father's Day issue and a couple of mom's not being nice to him because of the A and boy did he get angry. Back to everything being my fault yada, yada yada. That's when mc said go back to giving him more space when he said he was done.
Don't know if he has seen an L yet or if he is just acting mean. I won't initiate it.
M 48 H 50 M 25 T 27 D 20,18,15 6/11 H filed 3/12 H dropped 4/12 H moved out
