Oh sweetie, I did not mean that at all. I am so sorry if that is what you understood.
Your h's still loves you. How can he not? He is just so blinded by crisis.
The thing is that even if they come through this, they are forever changed. And the truth is, so are we.
And so, when/if your marriage is restored, it will be different. But that isnt a bad thing because it will be a marriage born of two people who weathered the storm and realize that more than anything they choose to be together to build a new marriage.
I feel terrible that if I made you feel badly. That is never my intent.
I believe that deep down he knows those things he says arent true. But in his broken and hurt mind, he is so confused. And so they lash out at those closest to them.
