Well mediation was a Giant waste of time.. H was just a loon on the phone just kept talking in circles and giving no answers. Even the mediator was amazed by his idiocy. At one point he wrote on a piece of paper I have no idea what to do... Welcome to my life
So since we got nowhere we have to now go in front of a judge. H still thinks he can just say I can only pay 300 and that is it. He was harrassing me all afternoon to take the court out of it and just take 300 from him. I guess and just stay married forever. And he found out that if he is in arrears he could not be let into the country. Somehow that is my fault too I am keeping him from the kids. Get a job and pay c support.
I am in such a differnt place with this than I would have been last year. I said you chose to leave the US and you are choosing to not pay c support but it is my fault you won't be able to see the boys... Makes perfect sense to him.
Hopefully one of these days I will finally get a divorce. I am so done with him and his crap.
