I have noticed that you never post on anyone else's thread. Some of your own healing will come from connecting to others who are in similar sitches. Reaching out and communicating, I think, would be very good for you. And it helps whoever you reach out to as well. Don't you like to log into DB and find posts on your thread? I know I do! Take a risk and reach out Kelela Make a new friend - even if it is only a virtual friend.
You don't have to give advice - you can just say "I've read your thread and wish you good luck."
C'mon and get social!!
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.