"Thanks for your reply, i cant quite agree with your logic but i guess we all cant agree on everything."
Not sure what you mean by "logic". I'm speaking from experience from being on here and other places for a long time. Those that have a coach to set the couple on the right path have a much better chance of having a long lasting reconciliation than those who don't. You'll even find a number of people currently posting here who thought their M was saved, but didn't get the right help to move it forward.
When my W and I went to C, a number of issues were brought up that we didn't even know were issues because we never thought of them. But in the end we discovered that they also hurt our M.
I can pretty much guarantee you that even if you think you're open, your W isn't. Like I said before, the two of you dealing with things on your own is what landed you here in the first place.
But that's up to you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
