Thanks for your reply, i cant quite agree with your logic but i guess we all cant agree on everything. I am not convinced you can guarantee that we will fail without some third party help, our marriage has failed due to lack of communication amongst other things and we are working on them. I am nothing but honest in everything i do and i am here because i have read alot of people in similar positions to me and have taken comfort and advice in all i have read, some invloving C and some not Thanks anyway for replying and taking time to read my posts.
Me: 39 W: 33 Son:7 Daughter:4 Its Over: March 7th 2013 Moved back home Mid June, trying to make it work