Ok, I can't take it anymore. SM34, STOP with the manly/attraction stuff!!!
Before I found out about my H's infidelities, I will tell you right now that one of the ONLY complaints I had of him was his unwillingness to do anything INSIDE the house. He did all of the outside chores, and is seriously about the manliest man you will ever meet. Holds doors open, yes mame, you name it. BUT I LOST IT!! Last year I just stopped doing everything. I felt so unappreciated and unloved. Now I've let him back into the house, and watching him bathe the kids, help me fold laundry and do dishes on occasion...make me want to jump him. For real. That is not a silly excuse. It is a valid complaint!! No one should take on all of the chores and do anything and everything to appease their spouse, but helping out goes a long way.
END RANT!
Now, In Irons...keep up the 180s and GALs. Anser Bond, he rocks! How much of the book have you read.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
