jb, it has always been interesting how similar our sitches are. How similar our stbxs are as are the time frames.
My D10 does tell me things from time to time, like not being alone or that my stbx is actively dating or sometimes, when she is doing things (like apparently planning to attend the outdoor music festival again with her enabler friends, this year).
I just wanted to mention that it is OK to listen to your S12, as I do listen to my D10 when she mentions that stuff, although I do try to acknowledge and then direct the conversation to something else, as she does when she notices she's on stbx as a subject, too long.
