I don't post over here very often but wanted to get a discussion on this topic going. For those that don't know my story I'm D'd but still see XW frequently due to kids. I'm not spinning, trying to get her back, asking the why questions, or anything like that. I'm in a good spot with MY life right now with each day getting better. I preface this thread with that because I want this to be more an educational type thread and not a thread about me, my XW, or my sitch.
The thing I'm seeing is my XW seems to almost have multiple personalities and each of these personalities seems to have a unique 'age' to it. Sometimes it's the depressed/ confused person, then there's the extremely outgoing and happy person, there's disengaged mom who would rather be texting like some teenager, then there's super-mom, there's of course angry at the world and everything is someone else fault persona, followed by it's all about me party girl, etc... You get the picture. She'll show many of those in the same day or even afternoon.
Is this 'mask' wearing a normal thing for an MLC'r to go through? What are your experiences with this? Again, I'm not trying to figure out how to fix her or what I should do because I've learned to stay the hell out of her way. It just intrigues me and I'm curious...
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
