CV has a hobby of gardening. CV doesn't ask H to join her anymore. CV has told H that she enjoys doing it alone and does not want H's participation, much like H and his golf. CV has asked H to stop asking to join her.
To me, logic dictates that H shouldn't keep asking/complaining about gardening with CV.
Is that illogical?
Would it have been alright if I simply responded, "Yes, that's correct, I don't you to garden with me", and have that be the end of the discussion?