OT, thanks for coming back, all things considered. But just think, if I ever do "get it," imagine your sense of accomplishment!
I wish I could step outside of my body long enough to see what every one else seems to see so clearly. I believe it 100%, I just can't seem to get that perspective from within myself.
Your alternative response is pretty close to right on. The differences are irrelevant. I'm afraid that halfway through my saying that, H would have just heard, "blah... blah... blah... criticism... blah... blah... blah. superiority... blah... blah... blah... and shut down.
But pretending for one minute that I could turn back time and would have said that to H, he would have then asked, "What do you want me to do?"
How do I answer that? Especially in light of the paragraph that's all about "me"?
