I have read it and took the quiz to find out what mine is. But how do you know what someone else's love laungage is without them taking the quiz and who would you be using that info on if not your wife? At this point, even if I new my W's love lauguage there wouldn't be anything I could do with it. Wish we had taken the quiz together years ago.
Jax, I know I'm no expert, but even during S we likely still have opportunities to either fill or deplete our W's love tanks. We can use the time away to reflect on what love languages our Ws use. Maybe I'm optimistic, but even in our limited time interacting during this time (esp. when going dim) we could use interactions to fill their love tanks.
It would be interesting to get some perspective on this from a vet.
ETC
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