I won't reply to W until I heard from you guys on here.
My first thought was to respond with:
Quote:
"I don't believe we could work it out without solicitors."
I would be tempted to also state that she wants too much and she always needs to win and she will try and walk all over me. I wouldn't, that's just what I feel like saying.
Looking back at her "reasons" for the breakdown of the marriage. We had a lot problems with my family in 2009/early 2010 but things were fine 2011/2012. Her and mother clashed a bit but whats new there.
That last line in the email: You wish to persue everything to and fro solicitors then that is how you wish to proceed.
I could mind read that all day!!
Do you need more information or has she answered your question?
If you don't need more information, you don't need to reply other than as Kate said, "Thanks for the clarification."
And now take time to think about how you want to proceed.
Communicating in this way will be a 180 for you.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
