You say you were stuck in the middle between your wife and your family.

Did you ever stick up for her? It is very important for a woman to feel her man has her back, even when it comes to her family.

If that was the case, perhaps someone here can offer a way for you to demonstrate that you are in her side, even if she may feel it is too late it may be something she is still holding on to.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017