Big bust up between me/W and my brother (best friend at the time) and his wife. Tbh I think my brothers wife found it hard because she was the "pretty one" but shy before my W came along. My wife came along and was the pretty one but had confidence too. Obviously they have a different take on it. It got quite messy. My parents were trying to force a truce which made my W fight back even more.
My brother and wife weren't at the wedding. They were willing to forgive and forget but W wasn't.
When S3 was born it all got sorted out. We even went on vacation with them and we all became great friends.
I felt stuck in the middle at the time and we argued about it a lot. It was a crack that never went away.
We were happy for the 1st year and then imo happy years 3 and 4 although exhausted with the two kids and W losing job didn't help either.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
