But those are choices YOU make. You don't need to be dating someone else to make choices that are good for you.

Unless you change you, odds are high you'll fall into another very similar R, don't you think?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss