It would take a lot of work on both sides, or do you think it's all her fault?
I think we are both responsible. I am more than willing to learn, grow and change. Can't make her do it but I can't see us going anyway the way she is.
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That's pretty much it, great! Does setting boundaries seem effective in protecting you?
Yes it does. It stops W using/controlling me.
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I don't understand what dating someone else has to do with how you respond to your W? Can you explain that more?
IF I was dating someone else and I was still my W's whipping boy it wouldn't last too long would it? I would still be expected to help her out if really needed and still converse with her about the kids. I wouldn't be taking days off work for or taking her bins out.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
