New to This - An English Man In Trouble

[Hadlee58]

Thanks for the advice Mr Bond, my wife has flatly refused to speak to a C and i have to probably agree with her i am not that keen on it either we have always worked through our problems together so a C is not an option.
You are right about the sex and i just need to learn to be patient
I managed to discuss with her last night how we moves things along and it didnt go the way i had hoped, she seen it as 'pressure' to get things back to normal when she isnt quite ready for sharing a bed etc she thinks that we are doing just fine as we are laughing/talking and enjoying each others comapny and the rest will happen naturally in time. I could see she was getting mildly annoyed with the conversation and it hit a bit of a dead end but to fair to her she left the room for 10 minutes (i thought that she had gone to bed angry) but came back for us to clear the air which we did and both seen each others side, this was great as previously we would have let it slide and the resentment would build up. Again this morning she was very happy that we cleared the air and she said she was looking forward to the weekend together starting tonight, she said that since clearing the air last night she didnt feel pressured now and could see my side but again said it will take time and happen naturally.
All in all not a bad end although i wish i hadnt brought it up in the first place as i worry i might have undone a couple of weeks good work, i guess i need to learn some patience!!!!
Its funny 2 months ago i would have given my right arm to have been in this position but now i am finally here as usual i am trying for more and probably too quickly.

Thanks again!!