W and I had a somewhat heated discussion yesterday about some of our issues. I told her that I was not comfortable, again, that divorced dad came over on Wednesday. She had my sons parents over for playdate with their kids. They had hotdogs and such. Well she invited divorced dads kids over. I have no problem with the kids being over but my wife and divorced dad know that I am not comfortable with him being here with my wife when I am not. It is one of my boundaries.
Well that caused an argument yesterday and I told W that I am tired of her disrespecting me and that divorced dad was not to be here when I am not (ultimatum).
She has not worn her wedding ring for about two months now and when we got up for breakfast this morning, she was wearing them.
Any thoughts on this development. I am confused. I told her that I was glad to see them back on her finger and asked if she wanted to talk about it. She said no and I left it at that. I dont want to scare the squirrel.
