So I don't want to rehash my whole situation but in a nutshell I'm 5 weeks away from giving birth me and WAH'a first child. Amid all our turmoil we decided to still buy a house together to enable him to spend time with our baby in a comfortable and close setting. I decided that I can't DB while pregnant. It was too much mental energy.
I am focusing on my baby and now the move, planning his nursery, etc. H has definitely checked out from our marriage and in general he has always has an easy time detaching from me even on his "in love" days. Question is, how do I learn to detach? It's so hard for me not to let him affect me even though I am starting to come to terms with the reality that he doesn't even care about me anymore (forget love, forget being in love, forget wanting to stay married). He's going to be in my life bc he wants his son.
Me 35 H 34 DS- newborn 8/13 T 8.5 M 7 H's EA - 10/11 INILWY 5/13 DBing 6/13 Don't know WTF to do 1/14
