I think getting clarification is always a good thing. She can't control him if he doesn't let her.
. She has already gotten a reaction from T, and now he is the one waiting to see what she will say. It is game playing to get him back under her thumb. I don't think the men see it, but I thought the ladies would see through it. That girl is just pulling on his chain tighter.
I would not be surprised to find out that she has not talked seriously to any lawyer. I think this may be coming from her only, to shake T up.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
