"I Love you but love her too"....WHAT?

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kml, The funniest part my h's description of the ow's gf is that the ow is just as obnoxious! She never stops talking, can't sit still, never answers a question even if it's a yes/no question and it's always all about her! It's all smoke and mirrors with her. Moving target is a good way to describe her. Wonder how that's all going to work out in the long term? LOL

I met a friend of ours for lunch this afternoon. He's been trying to get a hold of h for months and h isn't returning calls to him so he called me to see if everything was okay. I didn't really say much but told him that h was having a rough time. He asked me to meet him for lunch. My cell phone rang. I was in still in "hands free" mode and there was no caller ID. Thinking it might be our friend calling to tell me that he was running late, I answered. Of course it was h just calling to say hi. Asked me what I was up to and after a bit he asked if I could go check something out in a file here at the house. Told him that I wouldn't be home till later in the afternoon but that I'd do it when I returned. He asked where I was. I told him that I was just getting ready to go into a restaurant then changed the subject back to the info that he was seeking. On my way home I stopped and picked up not 1 but 2 dozen roses. Unfortunately, he had already come by and picked up his truck. Maybe tomorrow he'll see them and put the restaurant and the roses together! The empty wine glasses on the deck will be next. Thanks for the suggestions! I can tell you that he won't like seeing the roses OR 2 mostly empty wine glasses.

Our friend was in shock that h was acting as he is. I didn't get into too many details but enough to let him know that h wasn't in a good place right now. We've know he and his wife for almost as many years as we've been married. He told that h needs a smack with a 2X4. This guy is not someone you'd want to mess around with. He's a former (NY/NJ) undercover narcotics cop and has seen and heard it all. H has always said that he'd never want to piss him off to ever be on his bad side. Oops, sorry h, I didn't mean to tell him.

Btw, I went down to the wine cellar and took 5 more bottles out of there and hid them. I noticed the Champagne section is short 2 bottles of the expensive stuff. He must have taken them while he was still living here. There are too many bottles to hide, I'll just have to keep a closer watch on him when he visits or maybe just cut off the visits entirely.