Hi Mtnman, your W's behavior is interesting atp, and not as easy to figure out what is in her mind.
You must be worried about the boys on this trip, if you're usually the one to shoulder the majority of their care.
But it will be a little (much-needed?) break for you.
Are you concerned she is mentally preparing for a break with you since she is taking them more?
It was very interesting to read about your W's dad. I'm so glad you had a great R with him. Do you think W never had a chance to be that "bad girl" and is testing out what that feels like without letting go of you?
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway