I really think he has this idea that we are good and life can be just like this forever.<- Yours
I really think he has this idea that we are good and life can be just like this forever. <- Mine
Makes you crazy crazy crazy doesn't it? The last sort-of R talk I had with H I told him I didn't see how I could continue "as is" until the twins turned 18. He told me that I could, and that if necessary I could go 10 years.
Well sure, maybe, with like electroshock therapy or a lobotomy...
This new alone road is hard. I am trying to figure out if its harder than the current together-but-not-really road.
Take care
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.