I really think he has this idea that we are good and life can be just like this forever.<- Yours

I really think he has this idea that we are good and life can be just like this forever. <- Mine

Makes you crazy crazy crazy doesn't it? The last sort-of R talk I had with H I told him I didn't see how I could continue "as is" until the twins turned 18. He told me that I could, and that if necessary I could go 10 years.

Well sure, maybe, with like electroshock therapy or a lobotomy...

This new alone road is hard. I am trying to figure out if its harder than the current together-but-not-really road. smirk

Take care


Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.