Not confused...moving towards acceptance

[BRNR]

Also, he sent me two text today...one about the money and one about his late arrival of picking up the kids. I think it is in my best interest to go dark on him right now and maybe permanently, so I didn't respond to either and probably won't respond to any future ones. I actually felt okay with that decision. I was normally just delaying my responses, but now, I am thinking he is up to something ... I have even resorted to just shooing the kids out the door when he picks them up. Before I would greet him and then get the boys...try to keep it light and friendly... but with all the drama that is going on I see no need for him to even see that I exist.