Not confused...moving towards acceptance

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Wh- just to clarify. My h has been living out of the home since December. Our joint account was the "dumping ground for our agreed financial responsibilities. When H left, we split all the cash accounts down the middle, so honestly, who knows how much (or little) money H has.

I get constant phone messages from his creditors (for his bills exclusively) that he past due. I am just surprised that he would pay our joint debt and ignore his own. Seems fishy. He is definitely up to something.

So I have decided to not touch said monies at all with this court case looming...it is at the end of the month and I think I can hold out until then. I really want the judge to give h the what for. Keeps me clean so to speak.