Bklyn

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Take a deep breath, you CAN do this. I know how you feel when you say you feel like a bad mom, I have those days/weeks, too. Try not to be so hard on yourself, those are tough ages and you are not only handling it all alone, you are also dealing with a terrible situation in addition to being a single mom.

Why are you so hung up on this and don't want to let it go when everyone tells you how great divorce is? Because it isn't what you want and also because you are doing the work on yourself that is necessary for this M or a future one to work out long term. Most people don't do that, they just move on to the next relationship without healing or growing and they have all of the same problems.

I am sorry you are alone and this is so hard. I will be sending some positive thoughts and prayers your way Brooklyn.