Don't understand, why now???? Plus what do I do??

[ct man 1969]

Using the last resort technique, has anyone noticed that their spouse seemed to start to act as the book predicted, and then all of a sudden just get mean? when I started, she would be nice one day, then kind of nasty the next. Now it's just nastiness. Any input would be appreciated. I'm running out of time here. Only 31 more days until they finalize the divorce.

Thanks again