I know what you are going through my H is spending all of our money on OW too. I had opened an savings account and now I will have to go and open a separate checking account and get my lay checks out of the joint account so that I will be able to take care of myself and my boys. And then I want to see how long H affair with OW will last since he is paying for everything that they do. And when we do start the D then I would like to see if she will still be around for that too. Cause I'm going to try to get what ever I can get cause I will have to raise my two boys on my own. And by the way H had told our boys that we maybe spereating and he maybe moving out but he didn't tell them when this will happen and he hasn't been talking to me as of lately. So I don't know what is going on now. I know he won't be home this weekend I learned from MIL that he is going down to country concert that is happening all weekend long. He had told me that he is working all weekend long so he won't be home much. So I now I know he is going to spend The weekend with OW at the country concert. Good thing I work the whole weekend so that will keep me Bessy I may just get some extra money and go to The drive in with my boys this weekend so we have something to do. Will now I know that my M is almost over now. Now I'm just waiting to The day he decide to move out. And I hope he will wake up and realize that he lost the best thing in life his family.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013