Originally Posted By: Positivespin


So I went to the beach.........with myself.
So many monsters in my head giving me ample reasons why NOT to do it. Overwhelming, what will I do all day? Will I be the only one alone- Will all the other couples and happy families look, laugh and see me as the lonely looser?

What I learned BY GOING MYSELF is that I think some folks were jealous of me. I didnt have anyone nagging me or arguing with me. no other persons a$$ to kiss or the sense that i was responsible to make sure that everyone around me was having a good time.


And that was a perfect positivespin wink

BTW I am envious of you! I could spend all day at the ocean, so powerful yet so calming...

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"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
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