Hi K Men don't think about their sons when they are with the OW.
Men don't think about anything other than OW when they are with them. Mine actually told me one day that he had to go see her because her son needed him to do something for him. Geez, he couldn't be bothered to attend his own son's school presentation, but had to run to the OW to do something for her son. And where is OW's son's dad during this???
One thing I've found is there's plenty of support here from both vets and newbies. You just need to stay strong for yourself and your boys.
Right now the OW has power over him, but statistics say that most affairs end within 6 months to 2 years - I can only hope it doesn't take 2 years for my H to realize that OW has her own baggage or for OW to realize that my H isn't the money train she thinks he is.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
