"I love hanging out with my children. its 30 min each way and I visit them 4 times a week. I am planning to move closer within the next year. I have a fear that they will forget about me if I see them any less than that."
"Unless I go for equal custody. I never went that route due to avoiding rocking the boat. I will request 50/50 in the future."
YOu should have pushed for this when all this happened. You're being too nice to her and she's left you with nothing. Can you swing the 50/50 with the kids now? If so, do it. They need you (especially since they're your sons) just as much as their mom.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
