Im certain that its the increase in my wellbutrin BUT "EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON"!
A wise older man suggested that I REALLY think about this - "Do you want her back because it was SUCH a blow to your ego?"
Think really hard about this.
How much worse could it be if you had your roots and she pulled this stunt? The TRO would then take your children away!
Could she/ would she pull it again?
I realized my co-dependence and am now focusing on doing things by myself when D3 is with Mommy. On Friday I didnt tell anyone and I disappeared and sat at the beach all day by myself. I got soo much sun that I was still in flip flop mode 4 days later.
Im thinking about trying the movies by myself. Im scared and feel pathetic before I do it but after.............energized as hell.
The non- profit work- are you lifted when you leave? You did it! If your not patting yourself on the back each time- you need too.
We are rebuilding- and we are upgrading. Maybe our new selves will re-attract our wives and the mother of my little girl- Maybe not
I KNOW that if my wife wants to come back she will need to cut off all contact with her new friends. Is that demand my deal breaker- YES
Lefty, you are one heck of a good guy and you just need a change in scenery. When you get that new job and you get the new clothes and you change your routine you will be one happy man........
"EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON"
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
