Hi, T. Thanks for dropping in! Gardening is my GAL, so it's already a 180 since I used to put it aside to do H's activities.
LOL! -- I don't have a clue how to do a 180 on logical thinking!
I've offered him an area for him to garden before. He doesn't really want to garden. He says he wants to do it "with me." I've agreed to his joining me in the past, and then he spends the whole time complaining and trying to rush me to get finished, so that I'll be free to go do "his" thing with him. That behavior from him makes me want to do it without him.
I've looked into your thread a bit. I read that you've been at this for 4 months, and I know that must seem like an eternity. There are certainly things you can do for yourself to make it less painful, but there's little you can do to make it shorter. It takes time, and lots of it. I hope you can find it in yourself to muster the endurance (marathon vs. sprint) because I don't remember anyone here having a magic bullet.
