Originally Posted By: Demoted26
BTW, sounds like your hubby is in the PERFECT place to at least have to put a little thought into this whole deal.
Nice of you to give him a ride, too.
Funny, how it goes, in a sad way. Must be surreal dropping him off elsewhere as"home". *sigh*


I'm certainly hoping so. And oh boy did it hurt to drop him off, say "see you" and drive off like I was dropping off a co-worker, not my H. Surreal is certainly one way of describing it.

Funny thing is as I was driving him there, his landlady/surrogate mother, however he wants to refer to her, called him to find out if he was on his way. Checking up on him maybe?? He did tell her that I had picked him up and was dropping him off at the building within 5 minutes. Not sure how long he'll take that - last time he went back to the UK he wouldn't stay with his mother because she wanted to set a curfew on him. Maybe that'll drive him back my way as that's something I never did. I only ever asked if he'd be home in time for dinner, and that was before BD and DBing.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks