Wife said she was done! House sold, Moving forward

[Maritimer]

"I just noticed my wife unfriended me on Facebook. Should I ask her why?"

No. She's doing it because she doesn't want you in her life and doesn't want you to follow her antics. Unfortunately that's her reality that she's decided to build. It has nothing to do with things that you have done. And it is a high school mentality.


The best thing you can do is to get out of her way. Anything you tell her will be taken with hostility. Get out of the way so she doesn't see you as an easy target. Continue to grow and get better.

Thanks for the reality check MrBond. I am at a low point mentally and need to get my spirits up.

Any books that you can recommend that would help me access, identify, then implement positive changes?

I find the DR increases my hope for reconcile but her actions and behaviors are telling me the opposite.

I will do what i can to distance myself further from her, yet still be involved with the boys.