That's a rough way to learn about an affair, Nero, I'm so sorry that happened to you. At least I was snooping because I was suspicious. It hurt, but I was not blindsided like you. But Nero, read that blog that Dawn posted on the previous page. It is mind-boggling, like the stuff Wonka posted about her own MLC. We feel like zombies trying to cope, but the MLCer is the REAL zombie! We just need to "let it go" until the day they wake up and beg our forgiveness. Then WE will have to decide if we still want them. Maybe not....
Sure I know that song, so glad to have my fellow girl scouts sitting around the campfire with me, holding my hand and bucking me up during my times of weakness. TVS is making drinks, anybody got the makings for som-mores?