Today w and boys go off for the weekend. I've never been away from them more than two nights. Maybe three will be manageable. Yesterday w did not come up to the house. First time in a long time. She and I did text about boys.

Last night she went out with a responsible girlfriend to the movies. Maybe it did some good. I have suspicions that it was orchestrated by someone. The friend called me first to see if w was around instead of ws cellphone. It was planned spur of the moment and the friend is usually too busy for that. Leads me to think someone asked her to go talk sense into w. Maybe not?

W has not mentioned speaking to an attorney. But, she is making an effort to spend more time with the boys and be away from me. Our SIL texted me when she heard I wasn't coming with them this weekend for the visit. She's concerned because I usually take care of the boys and she knows its going to make things more stressful for everyone if I'm not there. We both agreed it could be an explosive situation.

I'm not sure what I'll be doing this weekend. Other than sleep.


M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later