I sent this to W this morning:

"Hi,

Just letting you know I got your email.

I'm not in complete agreement but I'm sure we can work things out through our solicitors."


I was so unsure whether to or not. Feel better for doing it.
The ball is back in her court but I feel like I have some control.

Thought it would hit me again this morning but I feel fine.

Divorce was complete terror many months ago. It felt like the end of the world. I'm sure there's much more heartache to come but I'm not as afraid of it as I was.

I'm in the best shape of my life, I look good and I feel good.
I'm more confident and outgoing than I have ever been before.
I never even really felt like I was a 'catch' before. Now I know I am.
Onwards and upwards!


M36 W31
S4 S2
T5 M4
BD Jan12 S July12
Recon Sep12-Nov12
ILBINILWY Jan13
OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

The World is still My Oyster!