Initially I was angry that she wanted the divorce. I couldn't understand her. Therefore, I put all our wedding items at her place by giving an explanation that my house will be undergoing renovation and i have no place to put them. I was hoping at that point in time that she would remember the good items and reflect on our relationship. I realized that this is a fatal mistake according to sandi's rules. Therefore, i do not know whether it is a good idea to get our weddings stuff back now since the renovation just ended.
