The best thing you can do right now is continue working to change those things you know you need to change.
Become the man you want to be.
Let your W figure out what she wants. Your changes will become evident in your actions. It's easy to say you will change, the work and reward, is actually in doing it.
Hi labug, i realized that I can only work on myself at this moment in time. Been putting in effort to work on myself and making myself the man I want to be. I agree with you that I need to let my W figure out what she wants. I believe i'm mind reading now as I believe she does not want to have anything to do with me anymore. In our country, if she wants to have a divorce, we will need to be separated for at least 3years before the divorce can be proceeded. I turn it into a PMA by saying, my wife has given me the gift of time to be the man i want to be. However as much i want to believe in that, I've backslided on that thought too much recently.
