I am also a newbie with my own marriage issues, so I do not have any good advice to give, but was reading your thread and wanted to send support and good vibes. A big thing I now know not to do that will turn a WAS off is to beg and plead. I've too made that mistake in the past and it definitely pushed my H away even further and made me look weak. Have you read Sandi's 37 rules? That should also be helpful for you to follow.
Best of luck!
hi chl, thanks for dropping by. I really appreciate the support that you are giving me. I understand that beg and pleading does not bring the both of us together but instead make my W more angry. I've not been begging and pleading anymore after reading DR but the urge is still there but i've not acted on it yet. I've read sandi's 37rules and is trying to follow them as closely as possible.
